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UPX – The Lookback (part one)

by aileen on April 19, 2011

My review of UPX

I’m back to blogging. It kind of got lost in all the planning for UPX (USING PEOPLE – THE EXPERIENCE) and the other things that demand my time and attention. Then the other day, reading a post from a friend, I realized I missed it. I missed saying what was on my mind, sharing the stuff I found interesting and interacting with those of you that read this.

your word is your bond

Sometimes writing is the best way to communicate, especially when you are writing for yourself. UPX was over a week ago, and we have had great feedback from it. It was really something different for me, integrating actors into the show, having to hit cues, marketing the show myself – and working with a team of people (without whom it wouldn’t have happened). I have been giving Using People as a speech for at least 5 years, so to have a director (the wonderful Cody Daigle) come in and add/rearrange/direct it was daunting (at first) it quickly turned into an incredibly easy and fun process. Along with Cody, I worked with Jesse Guidry who blew me away with his relaxed professionalism and his attention to details. If I lost a piece of paper, Jesse had the information backed-up somewhere. I’m really fussy about some things, especially how people are treated (I want the best customer service ever) and Jesse took that and ran with it. Over-delivering and making me laugh at the same time. Ask me about him sliding down the stair rail at a very security conscious company in town.

If you know anything about me, you know I believe you attract things into your life. If the people I worked with are a reflection of that then I’m very happy. We also partnered with Jolie’s Louisiana Bistro, their executive chef, Manny Augello is a good friend and (I think) a kindred spirit – a chef isn’t what he does for work, it’s who he is. He produces amazing food and I think his passion is the main ingredient. I treasure him more than he will ever know – and know his future is going to be bigger and better than his wildest dreams. He is married to a great friend, and hysterically funny person, Abi – she was the nun in the preview videos and appeared in the lunchtime show – and boy can she shake it! I love them both. Also from Jolies we had Luke Tullos, the mixologist of your dreams. I collect people who are passionate about what they do… and Luke is part of that collection. His drink (the Using Pisco) was quite amazing – every one loved it and they drank him dry. None of that taking a small sip to be polite and then switching to beer that night!

There are so many more wonderful people to tell you about…. the actors, the partners, the non-profit and the sponsors, and of course the audience. Part two coming soon.. maybe even later today.

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Updates – USING PEOPLE – THE EXPERIENCE

by aileen on March 3, 2011

Sorry for the blog silence. I have been so busy that I’ve forgotten to keep you all updated so here goes.

USING PEOPLE – THE EXPERIENCE is quite an experience. We have had a great reaction to what we are doing – combining a speech with actors, special effects, networking, and a whole lot more. It’s been such fun working with everyone so far.

I am very happy to announce that DEXCOMM  have agreed to be our event sponsor. They are a company that care about communication, and so are a perfect match for us. We love working with them. Read about it here.

I am also thrilled to announce that we will be donating 10% of our profits to Camp Bon Coeur – a camp for kids with heart defects. I have also worked with them before, they do great things and are wonderful people – more about Camp Bon Coeur coming up soon!

We are planning an amazing event, working with playwright, Cody Daigle is fascinating, he is adding elements to the speech that I would never have considered. It’s going to be such fun! I wish I could tell you more, but I’ve been sworn to secrecy!

Lunch will be provided by Jolies Bistro – if you have already eaten there you will know what to expect, if you haven’t – get ready to taste scrumptiousness.

The evening cocktail will be created by Luke Tullos, a talented mixologist, and we will have cheese from the wonderful cabot cheese people (yes we have a cheese partner – we are big time now!)

If you want to get involved there is still time. We still have space for a couple more sponsors and are collecting items to put in the best goodie bags ever! – just contact me and let’s talk.

DON’T FORGET TO BUY YOUR TICKETS ASAP – YOU DON’T WANT TO MISS THIS!

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The outtakes

by aileen on February 23, 2011

We had a lot of fun on our recent shoot for USING PEOPLE – THE EXPERIENCE. Here are some of the outtakes. Enjoy, and don’t forget to buy your ticket.

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Are you afraid?

by aileen on February 22, 2011

Here is this week’s column in The Advertiser – I wrote it for myself as much as for my readers.

“Are you scared? I hope so. Not afraid-scared, but out-of-your-comfort-zone, taking-some-risks, knowing-you-are-really-alive, kind of scared. It is a good fear that comes with living your life to the fullest.

We all play it safe sometimes, but there’s nothing like taking a step toward something you want, or even away from something you don’t.

For the past few weeks, a lot of people have been glued to “American Idol,” and especially to local boy, Jacee Badeaux. We are watching him take his chances to achieve his dream, and whatever happens, his life will never be the same again.

This week I spoke at a meeting of The 705, Acadiana’s Emerging Leaders, a group for young professionals and was amazed by their drive and energy. There are some people in that group living on the edge of their comfort zones; they are on the fast track to success.

It’s scary to put yourself out there, to say ‘this is what I want’ or ‘I think I’m good at this.’

There will be people who laugh behind your back, people who resent you for changing, and people who support and love you. You may drift away from some friends, and toward new ones.

People think that because I am a motivational speaker I don’t get scared. Of course I do. How could I speak about this stuff unless I lived it too? How could I know about overcoming doubt unless I had to do it myself?

We see ourselves from the inside, and others from the outside and then we compare the two. We think everyone is more confident, braver and less worried than we are. We all have those emotions; the secret is to acknowledge them and carry on anyway.

Doubt only hurts you if you let it prevent you from doing what you want. Other people can only hurt you if you value their opinions above your own.

If you are one of the lucky people who know what your passion is, or if you have a dream, then do something, anything. Yes, it’s going to be scary at times. Do it anyway. Imagine how scary it will be in 10 years, when you look back and realize the only person holding you back was you.

You have to stand in your own truth. That’s a very Oprah way of saying it, but it means that you have to know who you are and be that person. Jacee became a national talking point when he stood by who he was on “Idol,” when he didn’t let the behavior of others bring him down.

Yes, he shed a few tears, and then he got on with it. He didn’t even feel the need to put others down. It showed great character and won our hearts.

Collect people who are taking steps toward their dreams. Learn from (or go and join) The 705, watch Jacee on “Idol,” and then take your own steps.

I wish you much fear in the months ahead. The good kind.”

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You were saying?

by aileen on February 21, 2011

Watch this. Once. What were those excuses again?

Thank you Nike for the reminder.

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USING PEOPLE IS NOW AN EXPERIENCE!

by aileen on February 9, 2011

Using People started as a speech, then a book, and now… an entire experience!
Taking place in downtown Lafayette on Friday April 8th, Using People – the experience is part motivational speech, part theatrical event, part networking, all complete fun and lots of learning. Find out more HERE

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BE YOU – THE WHOLE TRUTH – Santa

by aileen on December 24, 2010

Every week my BE YOU interview is published in The Times of Acadiana – This is the unedited version, the bits that didn’t fit in the paper – The Whole Truth!

Santa Claus

This week’s BE YOU interviewee needs no introduction. I grew up calling him Father Christmas but he’s known better in these parts as Santa. Even though he is very busy at this time of year, Santa was happy to sit with me and answer my questions and pose for a photo. He laughed a big belly laugh at many of the questions before he answered and I could hear Rudolf outside impatiently waiting to take him back to The North Pole so he could join in some more reindeer games.

Describe a typical day in your life.
I wake up to the sound of reindeer playing reindeer games, make a list, check it twice then read that days letters and send the orders to the Elves. Sometimes I take the sleigh out for a test drive and then I have dinner with Mrs Claus.

What advice would you give the younger you?
Eat less cookies on Christmas Eve.

What event in your life most shaped who you are now?
Eating too many cookies gave me this shape.

What do you most appreciate?
Large chimneys and good children.

What is your favorite journey?
Around the world on Christmas Eve, it’s quite magical.

What living figure most inspires you?
The Easter bunny is pretty cool. The way he manages to hide all of those Easter Eggs without being seen, I have no idea how he does that!

What was the best advice you were ever given?
Be good, someone is always watching.

What book would you tell everyone to read?
I would tell them to read every book they get for Christmas.

How do you “let the good times roll” ?
I love a good sleigh ride, eggnog, and watching the reindeer games.

What do you say to yourself when you doubt yourself?
I believe in myself.

What three things are vital to BEing YOU?
My beard, my lap, my reindeer.

Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
Ho, Ho, Ho.

What is your favorite word?
Ho.

What do you collect?
Letters from Children all over the world and elf jokes.
My favorite at the moment is: If athletes get athlete’s foot, what do elves get?
Mistle-toes!

Where is your favorite place to be alone?
Where do I like to be by mys-elf? In my workshop of course!

What food could you live on for a month?
Milk and cookies. Mrs Claus wouldn’t like that though, she wants me to eat elfier food.

Describe yourself in five words.
Jolly, Devastatingly Handsome, Kind, Punctual.

What is your idea of happiness?
Hot Cocoa and a long nap on Christmas Day after all the presents have been delivered and all the children of the world are happy.

What is your favorite movie?
Miracle on 34th Street. It was my acting debut.

What music defines who you are?
We play a lot of “wrap” music in the workshop.

What is the best thing about where you live?
It feels like Christmas all year round, it’s good for my elf.

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BE YOU – THE WHOLE TRUTH – THOMAS PETERS

by aileen on December 20, 2010

Thomas Peters

Thomas (in his own words) serves coffee, fun and smiles at CC’s on Johnston. I know him as someone who always has a smile on his face and some of the most interesting Facebook updates I have ever read. He is a thinker, a dreamer and a doer, a rare combination these days. Interviewing him was a blast, a glimpse into a life well lived, and he left me still intrigued.

What was your first job?
I worked for my dad digging postholes and cutting grass. It taught me a lot about manual labor.

Describe a typical day in your life.
Up at 4 am dressed. Come to the cafe. Play with coffee all day. Go home about 5 or 6 and play with family. It’s all play.

What advice would you give the younger you?
Always be who you are. Don’t compromise. We are all individual for a reason.

What event in your life most shaped who you are now?
I took a week long trio Shasta Abbey in Northern California. It’s a buddhist retreat. It taught me so much about who I am.

What values do you live by?
Treat others as you wish to be treated yourself.

What do you most appreciate?
The ability to be who I am and think freely – to be who I want to be. Not having to fit into a stereotype.

What is your favorite journey?
The journey of life. It’s fascinating. Everyday is a new destination.

Where is your favorite place to be alone?
In the center of the hustle and bustle.

What living figure most inspires you?
My three children. Every day is so different. When they laugh it’s heaven on earth. They inspire me every moment.

What was the best advice you were ever given?
Some stories are true even if they are really false.

What book would you tell everyone to read?
The Tao of pooh by Benjamin Hoff.

What is the best thing about where you live?
The people. I absolutely love the people. They are so open and genuine.

How do you “let the good times roll” ?
Enjoying time with the family. Enjoying who we are, in our own little bubble.

What did you want to be when you grew up?
A Disney animator.

What is your motto?
Life is good.

How would you like to be remembered?
Legendary.

What do you say to yourself when you doubt yourself?
Just breathe.

What three things are vital to BEing YOU?
Coffee. Imagination. Family.

Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
Really.

What is your favorite word?
Balance.

What do you collect?
Stories.

What food could you live on for a month?
Coffee and cheese.

What would you change about yourself?
My ability to give more time to my family.

What literary, movie or cartoon character do you most identify with?
Charlie Brown. Tristan Ludlow (played by Brad Pitt) from legends of the fall.  He’s trying to find himself.

Describe yourself in five words.
Creative. Balanced. Random. Friendly. Open.

What is your idea of happiness?
To be in my daughters mind.

What is your favorite movie?
Tropic Thunder. Legends of the Fall. Big Fish.

What music defines who you are?
Opera.

What do you most regret?
Not following the dream of becoming a Disney animator. I had it so close that I could reach it and I got scared.

What question do you wish I’d asked?
What do I most want to be when I grow up.

What would the answer be?
Someone who can inspire somebody to be the best they can be.

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BE YOU – THE WHOLE TRUTH – LUKE TULLOS

by aileen on December 15, 2010

The BE YOU interview appears every Thursday in the Times of Acadiana.

Luke Tullos

The first thing that strikes you about Luke is how dapper he is. He is always impeccably dressed and oozes gentleman vibes. He is newly hired lead mixologist at Trynd, a restaurant and boutique lounge (opening downtown in Jan ’11) Recently engaged to Jessica Reeves he is creating a bright future for himself.  Luke is a barman of the best kind, with a dedication to educate the general public in the possibilities that lurk behind the bar. He makes you not only want to buy a drink, but hang out at the bar and learn a thing or two.

What was your first job?
I worked at Dairy Queen, it was horrible. It taught what i didn’t want to do

Describe a typical day in your life.
i don’t have a typical day, every day is different, it will usually entail research and mixing drinks.

What advice would you give the younger you?
Be open minded.

What event in your life most shaped who you are now?
Leaving the church, I was really involved well into high school and leaving really opened my eyes to a lot of things.

What values do you live by?
Love as much as possible

What do you most appreciate?
Good friends. Good drinks

What is your favorite journey?
I love to move forward

Where is your favorite place to be alone?
In the shower. it’s where i get most of my ideas.

What living figure most inspires you?
My baby sister, she had the most unique mind i’ve ever experienced. She is pure creativity

What was the best advice you were ever given?
Just because you are good at something doesn’t mean you should be doing it.

What book would you tell everyone to read?
Boozehound – On the Trail of the Rare, the Obscure, and the Overrated in Spirits,
by Jason Wilson. – its a great view into somebody who is passionate about what they do

What is the best thing about where you live?
My fiancé and all the people I love are around me.

How do you “let the good times roll” ?
Good people. Good booze.

What did u want to be when you grew up?

A preacher. I’ve always loved people. I love inspiring people. I love education.

What is your motto?
Love as much as possible

How would you like to be remembered?
As a genuinely good guy.

What do you say to yourself when you doubt yourself?
There’s nothing you can’t do.

What three things are vital to BEing YOU?
The people i love, alcohol and ice.

Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
Awesome. I use it so much it’s really bad. And um, Iuse umm a lot.

What is your favorite word?
Delicious or the yummy sound

What do you collect?
Dollar bills and antique bar wear

What food could you live on for a month?
Hot dogs

What would you change about yourself?
I would be more observant .

What literary, movie or cartoon character do you most identify with?
Max Fischer from Rushmore.

Describe yourself in five words.
Devastatingly handsome, friendly bar professional

What is your idea of happiness?
My life. I’m very happy with my life.

What is your favorite movie?
Bottle Rocket – with Luke and Owen Wilson

What music defines who you are?
Jazzy rock

What do you most regret?
Nothing, everything shapes who you are

What question do you wish I’d asked?
i didn’t think of that, i just promised myself i would answer everything you asked me.

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