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BE YOU – THE WHOLE TRUTH – THOMAS PETERS

by aileen on December 20, 2010

Thomas Peters

Thomas (in his own words) serves coffee, fun and smiles at CC’s on Johnston. I know him as someone who always has a smile on his face and some of the most interesting Facebook updates I have ever read. He is a thinker, a dreamer and a doer, a rare combination these days. Interviewing him was a blast, a glimpse into a life well lived, and he left me still intrigued.

What was your first job?
I worked for my dad digging postholes and cutting grass. It taught me a lot about manual labor.

Describe a typical day in your life.
Up at 4 am dressed. Come to the cafe. Play with coffee all day. Go home about 5 or 6 and play with family. It’s all play.

What advice would you give the younger you?
Always be who you are. Don’t compromise. We are all individual for a reason.

What event in your life most shaped who you are now?
I took a week long trio Shasta Abbey in Northern California. It’s a buddhist retreat. It taught me so much about who I am.

What values do you live by?
Treat others as you wish to be treated yourself.

What do you most appreciate?
The ability to be who I am and think freely – to be who I want to be. Not having to fit into a stereotype.

What is your favorite journey?
The journey of life. It’s fascinating. Everyday is a new destination.

Where is your favorite place to be alone?
In the center of the hustle and bustle.

What living figure most inspires you?
My three children. Every day is so different. When they laugh it’s heaven on earth. They inspire me every moment.

What was the best advice you were ever given?
Some stories are true even if they are really false.

What book would you tell everyone to read?
The Tao of pooh by Benjamin Hoff.

What is the best thing about where you live?
The people. I absolutely love the people. They are so open and genuine.

How do you “let the good times roll” ?
Enjoying time with the family. Enjoying who we are, in our own little bubble.

What did you want to be when you grew up?
A Disney animator.

What is your motto?
Life is good.

How would you like to be remembered?
Legendary.

What do you say to yourself when you doubt yourself?
Just breathe.

What three things are vital to BEing YOU?
Coffee. Imagination. Family.

Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
Really.

What is your favorite word?
Balance.

What do you collect?
Stories.

What food could you live on for a month?
Coffee and cheese.

What would you change about yourself?
My ability to give more time to my family.

What literary, movie or cartoon character do you most identify with?
Charlie Brown. Tristan Ludlow (played by Brad Pitt) from legends of the fall. He’s trying to find himself.

Describe yourself in five words.
Creative. Balanced. Random. Friendly. Open.

What is your idea of happiness?
To be in my daughters mind.

What is your favorite movie?
Tropic Thunder. Legends of the Fall. Big Fish.

What music defines who you are?
Opera.

What do you most regret?
Not following the dream of becoming a Disney animator. I had it so close that I could reach it and I got scared.

What question do you wish I’d asked?
What do I most want to be when I grow up.

What would the answer be?
Someone who can inspire somebody to be the best they can be.

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BE YOU- THE WHOLE TRUTH – John Herrera

by aileen on December 3, 2010

John Herrera

John is the owner of JuuJ Coiffure on Kaliste Saloom. He is one of the coolest people you will ever meet, and I’m not just saying that because he often has scissors just inches from my throat. He is one of those people who is doing exactly what they are meant to be doing, and I love people like that. John manages to combine a mischievous grin with a total air of calm. He is professional but never predictable and that makes me smile.

What was your first job?
My first job was at Baskin Robbins as a senior in high school. I can make a mean banana split.

Describe a typical day in your life.
I usually start with a 5:30 WOD at CrossFit Lafayette. Then I take my daughter to school for 7:30. I get to my salon by 10 AM and take anywhere from 8-12 clients till about 7 or 7:30 PM. I’m home just in time to hang out with my wife and 3 kids for about an hour, then we say prayers and tuck the kids in around 8:30 or 9. I try to get to bed before 10:30 so I can wake up and do it all again.

What advice would you give the younger you?
Live like you were dying.

What values do you live by?
Family, balance, passion,

What living figure most inspires you?
My wife. She challenges me to live “eternity-minded.”

What was the best advice you were ever given?
“Know when to hold ‘em, Know when to fold ‘em, Know when to walk away, Know when to run” Kenny Rogers.

What book would you tell everyone to read?
Power of a Praying Husband, Wife, etc. by Stormie Omartian

What is the best thing about where you live?
Hospitality.

How do you “let the good times roll”?
Cow tipping.

What did you want to be when you grew up?
I wanted to be a surf shop owner.

What is your motto?
Right is right, even if no one is doing it. Wrong is wrong, even if everyone is doing it.

How would you like to be remembered?
As someone who made a difference in at least one person’s life.

What do you say to yourself when you doubt yourself?
Just keep swimming! Picture Dory on Finding Nemo.

What three things are vital to being you?
Music, Laughter, and Ambition.

Which words or phrases do most overuse?
Seriously…I use it as a question, a statement, and an exclamation. Seriously? Seriously. Seriously!
and Ridonkulous.

What is your favorite word?
JuuJ. The proper spelling is tzsuj; it’s a Yiddish verb that means to tweak, finesse, or make better. It’s also the name of my salon, JuuJ Coiffure.

What do you collect?
I would like to have a watch collection someday, but I have too many mouths to feed at home.

What food could you live on for a month?
Mexican, but the kind you get from any place in California with ‘bertos in the name-Alberto’s, Filberto’s, Roberto’s, etc.

What would you change about yourself?
I probably would get rid of my tattoos. I’d be bringing wholesome back.

Describe yourself in five words.
Blessed, amicable, independent, optimistic, fun-loving.

What is your idea of happiness?
Spending time with my children.

What is your favorite movie?
Pulp Fiction, one of the best quotable movies EVER.

What music defines who you are?
I’m a huge fan of DMB, but I grew up on punk rock and reggae.

What do you most regret?
I regret some of the things I did in my life, but what I regret most are the things I did NOT do.

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There is no prize.

by aileen on November 25, 2010

I saw this on my friend, Angie Hargett’s facebook page and just had to share it.. inspirational words.

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Do something..

by aileen on November 24, 2010

I don’t know how I missed it but last Wednesday was Guinness World Records Day. All over the world people attempted strange things in order to hold a world record. A 90 year old man in England became the oldest man to wing-walk, in Germany they broke the record for the most nationalities in a sauna, and in the USA they gathered together the most dogs in costumed attire. Records were also created for juggling (both underwater and on land), catching arrows, making mosaics from rice, standing on one leg and of course I can’t forget the new record for the most stairs climbed while balancing someone on your head or most concrete blocks broken while holding a raw egg.

People all over the world are wonderfully strange. I haven’t met any of these people, and although I would love to sit down with them and find out what makes them do these things, I know one thing for sure. That each one of them went home happy that night.

You only have to spend a few minutes on Facebook to see people’s accomplishments. There are photos or status updates that show people at 5 and 10k races, winning honors, playing in sports teams, passing tests, and generally sharing their news. It is human nature to strive for more. I’m always proud when I see one of my friends achieve something. It pushes me to want to do it too.

In the early 1920’s when George Mallory set out to attempt to climb Everest he was asked why, and he simply answered “because it’s there.” He didn’t make it but his quote has become “the most famous three words in mountaineering” and applicable to so many things we do in our lives even today.

We are human, we strive to be better. It’s easy at the moment to be discouraged. Ten minutes listening to the news, or dwelling on all the negativity around us and we can start to wonder. I know everything will be fine. Better than fine. While people are still pushing their own comfort zones, while we are attempting new records and trying new things we will all be just fine. If you ever doubt that, just go and check Facebook. Or even better find something that you want to achieve and start working on it. You don’t have to climb Everest, just take a few steps in a direction you want to go in. You will feel more alive and more positive.

If you followed last week’s advice and surrounded yourself with positive people then this should be easy. If not, do it now. Find those that are pushing themselves and join in. It’s never too late to start.

As we get to Thanksgiving we start thinking about Christmas and tend to plan a lot of the next month away, don’t put this off until next year. Don’t tell yourself you’ll make it your New Years Resolution. Do something, and do it now.

You don’t have to break a record, just expand your comfort zone.

This article appeared in my column “That’s what she said” in The Advertiser on 23rd November 2010

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The best advice I was ever given…

by aileen on November 22, 2010

(about speaking)

Your speech doesn’t begin with the first words you say, it starts way before that.
The moment you are in sight of a member of your audience your speech has started, whether that be when you enter the building, when you get out of your car, when someone meets you at the airport or the day before when the conference begins.

You should look and sound confident the whole time, not just when you are on stage. If you have sat at breakfast looking nervous and scanning your notes, you have already made an impression on someone. If you sit through the speakers before you but ignore them, and reread your speech, you are not only missing out on some great stuff that you could be referencing, but you are giving an impression to the other speakers that you don”t care about them, and telling your audience that you are not prepared.
If your audience knows that you are confident they can relax and listen to you.

You may have already guessed that I believe that your speech doesn’t end until you leave the venue. Be confident, BE YOU.

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BE YOU – THE WHOLE TRUTH – Tracy Wirtz

by aileen on November 19, 2010

Tracy Wirtz

Tracy is the co-anchor of Good Morning Acadiana, on and off screen she oozes good vibes and is usually wearing a huge smile.
Tracy is one of those people who is so herself that she relaxes those around her. What you get is what you see, and in Tracy’s case what you see is a woman with a big heart and her priorities in order.

What was your first job?
A babysitter. I was 13 and I was awful at it… after that I fried chicken.

Describe a typical day in your life.
I get up at 1.45am and am in the office by 3.15. Yes, I do my own hair and make-up. Then I get wired up (with a microphone) and smile a lot

What advice would you give the younger you?
I would say two things – Be gentle with yourself. Recognize the speed bump between your brain and your mouth.

What event in your life most shaped who you are now?
There are so many, of course the births of my children, but it’s really about paying attention to all the moments, they add up.

What values do you live by?
Every single person has a purpose, a reason for being in your life. Nothing ever happens by accident.

What do you most appreciate?
Time – without it, you have nothing.

What is your favorite journey?
Work to home, and home to work. My ramp up and my decompression time.
The journey to 40. I’m so much more comfortable in my 40 year old skin than I was in my 20 year old skin.

Where is your favorite place to be alone?
In my bed at home, or in the bathroom at work (it’s my dressing room)

What living figure most inspires you?
My mother, she inspires me to this day, she’s 64 and she doesn’t stop, she amazes me.
My Grand Daughter – when I look at her I see hope, the future.

What was the best advice you were ever given?
BE YOU! Early in my career I tried to emulate people, I was told to find out who I was and be that person. I have to be me.

What book would you tell everyone to read?
Using People by Aileen Bennett (of course).. and I would tell them to read fiction. Other peoples imaginations fascinate me, it’s a real escape.

What is the best thing about where you live?
That even before I was on TV, everybody knew who I was.

How do you “let the good times roll” ?
With a remote control and a DVR

How would you like to be remembered?
As somebody who make people happy. There are not enough people like that in the world.

What do you say to yourself when you doubt yourself?
I’m very hard on myself, I’m very mean to myself. I don’t talk myself out of a bad time – I just keep going.

What three things are vital to BEing YOU?
My children. My job. My sense of humor.

Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
“Awesome”, “Dude”

What is your favorite word?
Serendipity. I just love saying it, what it means, everything about it.

What food could you live on for a month?
Steak

What literary, movie or cartoon character do you most identify with?
Molly Ringwald in Pretty in Pink

What is your idea of happiness?
Peace. For me, for my family. Oh, and lots of smiles.

What is your favorite movie?
Pretty in Pink.

What music defines who you are?
I love country music, but I listen to whatever strikes me. My music reflects my mood.

What questions do you wish I’d asked?
What things do you DVR, my DVR is stacked. Greys Anatomy, Private Practice, Cop Shows and of course, Swamp People.

The BE YOU questionnaire by Aileen appears in The Times of Acadiana every Thursday.

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This is the Commencement Speech I wish I’d given…

by aileen on November 18, 2010

One of the things I have always wanted to do is a commencement speech. The one below is perfect… but I have one ready for when someone asks.. it’s on my list of things to say YES to.

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Technology Tuesday.. soundnote

by aileen on November 16, 2010

I love my ipad. I’ve only had it for about a month and am still working out which apps are the ‘absolute-unlivable-without’ ones.

My first vote would be for Soundnote. I have always liked the idea of recording while I take notes. Somewhere I have a livescribe pen, I used it for a while. You take notes on special paper and it records, playing back exactly where you were in a conversation when you click on a word. I thought I would use it forever, but I would forget the (bulky) pen, or the notebook, or leave it to run out of charge. It was soon another good idea that was kept in the back of my drawer.

Enter Soundnote – It lets you type or draw and record. Click on any point on your page and it plays back the recording from that point. I only have to remember to have my ipad with me, and that’s pretty easy.

I love this because I can pay attention to the people in a meeting, rather than taking notes. If I hear something I want to play back later I quickly doodle something to remind me, knowing I can hear what was said at that point. I take notes much better with drawings.

This is a perfect example of technology improving face to face communication. And I’m all for that.

(this is an unpaid, just what I think review, I have no affiliate links or payment for this product)

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What if they ask me to talk about…

by aileen on November 15, 2010

It’s one of the main questions I get.. What if they ask me to talk about (insert name of something you know nothing about). There are a number of answers to this:

1. Why would they ask you to talk about something you know nothing about? If it is something you really should have an opinion about then get one! Remember they often want your opinion, they may value what you think. It may be that you just get to ask questions… “I like others, have found the talk about this very confusing, can you outline the main reason we are doing this.. “.

2. You can practice impromptu speaking. In fact I love to do it. You can think around a subject if you know you are to be involved in a discussion about it, ask yourself every question you can think about it. If you want to be confident about talking about any subject then join your local toastmasters club. The tabletopics session, where you are asked to talk for a couple of minutes about any subject without notice. It is a fun, safe way to learn and with a bit of practice you will improve quickly.

Never be scared to give your opinion, people like to hear different points of view, and you may mention something that they haven’t thought of. If someone asks you what you think, they probably want to know what you think. They don’t need you to be clever or entertaining, but they do need to hear your views.

If you are generally nervous about speaking up, and terrified of speaking out you may want to work with a coach. I know a good one!

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BE YOU – THE WHOLE TRUTH – Kody Chamberlain

by aileen on November 12, 2010

Kody Chamberlain

Kody is a comic book creator and illustrator. He is a quiet creative powerhouse often to be found in the local coffee shop (typically Americas coffee at the moment) sketching or planning. While he manages to stay relatively anonymous in Lafayette he is quite a big deal in the the world of comic books, having most recently produced his own comic, Sweets, which is getting people talking all over the country and has just signed a deal with MTV Geek. There is even has a Wikipedia page about him. His success is due both to his talent and work ethic, a lethal combination.

What was your first job?
Besides a bit of grass cutting, my first real job was scooping ice cream and making sandwiches at a small shop in Thibodaux, Louisiana. I used to ride my bike about 5 miles to get there.

Describe a typical day in your life.
My wife is a school teacher, so we normally wake up around 5:30am and I get to the studio around 6:30am. I’ll often walk over to Americas Coffee House in the morning to get the blood flowing and do a bit of writing, email replies, an any paperwork that needs to get done. Then I walk back to the studio and start making comics. That involves lots of penciling, inking, coloring et. I do try and do one full page of comic book art every day, but that’s not always possible, so I do still work a lot of nights and weekends to get i done. It’s fun work, so I don’ mind much, and I have a very flexible schedule.

What advice would you give the younger you?
I would tell a younger me to bet big on the Saints in the 2010 Superbowl. And I’d also tell a younger me to start drawing and reading comics a lot earlier in life. Since I started drawing around the age of 18, I was a bit behind and it’s taken a while to catch up. Most of the other professional artists I know have been drawing and reading comics all their lives. I wish I had as well. But in a way it may be to my advantage because I have an outside’s perspective. Time will tell.

What event in your life most shaped who you are now?
There are several of those moments that come to mind, but the event that’s had the most impact so far was the death of my mother. We never really bonded or had a real connection, so instead of living with regrets, I’ve been working hard to build better relationships with family and friends ever since.

What values do you live by?
I don’t always live up to my own standards, but I try to be honest, respectful, hard working, and a true friend.

What do you most appreciate?
My wife.

What is your favorite journey?
I love learning, any chance I get to learn something new, I embrace it. That’s always the best journey of all.

Where is your favorite place to be alone?
I’m usually alone in my studio, so that’s the easy answer. But since I work alone most days, I enjoy taking breaks and interacting with the people as much as I can.

What living figure most inspires you?
I’m most inspired by art, and my favorite living artist is Martin Scorsese.

What was the best advice you were ever given?
My college graphic design professor one told me that in the real world, results count, not effort. That’s been a real inspiration for me in many ways.

What book would you tell everyone to read?
To Kill a Mockingbird.

What is the best thing about where you live?
The people around me.

How do you “let the good times roll” ?
Dinner and a movie.

How would you like to be remembered?
I’d like to be remembered as someone that gave more than they took.

What do you say to yourself when you doubt yourself?
I rarely doubt myself, but when I do, I remind myself there are people far less intelligent than me doing what I’m trying to do.

What three things are vital to BEing YOU?
Family, art, and music.

Which words or phrases do you most overuse?
I probably curse too damn much.

What is you biggest fear?
My biggest fear is not knowing whats coming next, but it’s also my biggest thrill.

What is your favorite word?
Storytelling.

What food could you live on for a month?
Raisin Bran

What literary, movie or cartoon character do you most identify with?
Don Draper, but without the adultery, smoking, and alcohol.

What is your idea of happiness?
Hitting a deadline and heading to New Orleans for a weekend away with my wife. Those are the best days.

What question do you wish I’d asked?
What are you working on now?
I’m currently writing and drawing SWEETS for Image Comics available online, in comic shops, and on iPad/iPhones. I’m also illustrating PUNKS for MTV Geek, which should be available late this month.

The BE YOU questionnaire by Aileen appears in The Times of Acadiana every Thursday.

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